To Define.

We need Reasons.

By definition,
Reason is a statement presented in justification or
explanation of a belief or action.

or a better definition would be,
Reason is often opposed to emotions or feelings – desires, fears, hates, drives, or passions. We tend to say for example that their passions made them behave contrary to reason, or that their reason kept the passions under control. To describe reason as the servant of the passions—the means of sorting out our desires and then getting what we want, or perhaps even the slave of the passions—allowing us to pretend to reason to the object of our desire. Such feigned reason is called "rationalization".

There is a tendency to ask for reasons,
with the question, Why?
Because we need to know,
we need explanations.

Because in our heart of hearts,
we want to know..
that what it is we feel is real.
So we ask Why?
to give it context,
to put actions into words.

These things get muddled,
and sometimes make less sense
because sometimes there is no reason,
sometimes people don't have the answers.
People do things without knowing why,
Its just the way humans are.

But most times we're too afraid to ask the right questions
because we're scared of the right answers.
Cause then it is real.

Its all fairly contradictory.
We want answers,
but are most times too afraid to know/to ask.
And even more so afraid of having our feelings
answered/validated.
Its a very strange thing.